How to become a better ally
We’ve all heard the word ‘ally’ before but what does it really mean? With the many movements that have made it to social media such as #BlackLivesMatter and #FeesMustFall, many individuals are taking some time to re-evaluate and reassess how they conduct themselves on a daily basis.
As you may be aware, many organisations are also trying to become actively diverse and you may be wondering what you can do to make BIPOC (black, indigenous and people of colour) more comfortable. Here are some things you can do to be a good ally to the people around you..
- Amplify voices
Many BIPOC are known for their ideas being unheard or pushed aside. When an individual has a good idea and it seems like they are being ignored, you can become an ally by standing up for them and giving them credit. Although this seems like the bare minimum, your support can make a big difference in creating change.
- Use your voice
Many individuals refrain from voicing an issue that makes them uncomfortable and it can be even more difficult if they are the only ones being affected. They may feel as if their feelings are invalid and neglected because it doesn’t concern the majority of people. If they have a problem, you should use your voice to back them up.
- Listen
It’s important to listen to understand instead of listening to speak. Listening is one of the easiest and biggest ways you can be of service to BIPOC. Letting them know you can provide a safe space for them to vent and share their problems, and letting them know that they can confide in you is an invaluable form of support. Listening to their problems and validating them is a form of solidarity.
- Learn
Informing yourself is one of the most important parts of being an ally. By staying up to date with information, you allow your friends or colleagues to feel less alienated. For BIPOC it can be exhausting to constantly explain the history and motives behind every movement of activism.
- Stand up
If you see discriminatory behaviour in public, report it. If someone uses inappropriate language or slurs, even as a joke, call them out. If you’re seeing someone being taken advantage of, put a stop to it.
There were times when we never understood the importance of these movements we see on the internet. Make it your duty to educate yourself on these movements that you often see taking place on your timelines and understand the meaning behind it. The change starts with you.
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